For Pediatricians and Professionals Who Treat Children
or
Work With Parents
Hello,
My name is Juliet Marciano, MD, founder of Marciano Parent Coaching, LLC.
I’m a PCI Certified Parent Coach®️, a pediatrician (retired from practice), and a mother of four young adults, several with “extra” needs.
You may not realize how much the families in your practice and community are struggling and suffering.
When a child has special needs or extra needs, the whole family is affected.Â
Even if the parents are able to find the therapists, specialists, and doctors for their child, often the parenting challenges go unaddressed.
Parents wonder how to parent a child whose “extra needs” require extra time, extra patience, extra energy, and extra parenting strategies to guide them through life, and they wonder how to help the siblings with their extra challenges.
Most parents of children with special needs and extra needs are still struggling to figure out what this challenge means for their parenting dreams and what is possible for their family given their new “reality”.
Often, they’re exhausted and feel lonely and isolated.
They feel that nobody understands what they’re going through.
Some parents are judged and criticized by friends, family members, school personnel, and strangers.
They are confused and struggling to understand their children and their behavior.
Their parenting experience isn't anything like what they imagined it would be, and they often wonder how they will meet the needs of ALL their children when one of them is requiring so much of the family's time and energy and so many emotional and financial resources.
They want to feel calmer and less stressed despite their stressful situation, and they’ve often sacrificed their own self-care and wonder how much longer they can keep up.
They’re having trouble sorting through the flood of parenting advice they find on-line, from people who have no knowledge of their challenges or the particular needs of their family.
They’re unsure of the best way to parent.
These parents are in need of assistance with improving the quality of their family life, dealing with the current family struggles, and laying the groundwork for a deeper connection to sustain them as they prepare for what may be a challenging future.
These are the parents I help.
If you’re speaking to a parent who is facing a family challenge and is struggling to handle a parenting experience that is very different from what they had expected, I can help.
I work with parents of children with a physical, mental, behavioral, emotional, or learning difference, or parents guiding their children before, during, or after divorce, and I help them to become the parents their children need them to be!
After working with me, parents have a calmer, more connected, more “conscious”, and more confident parenting experience.
If you have a patient who is experiencing their parents’ divorce or has ADD/ADHD, anxiety, depression, OCD, “sensory issues”, “big emotions”, or challenging behaviors, please consider me as a resource for their parents.
Getting your patient the therapies and support that they need is crucial, but it’s not enough.
Their parents need their own support.
I offer parents coaching guidance in a knowledgeable, understanding, non-judgmental, and compassionate manner and help parents reclaim the joy of parenting no matter what challenges they face or struggles they encounter.
I work exclusively with parents or other caregivers, and, although I have been trained in and have actively practiced pediatrics in the past, I am no longer practicing medicine in any capacity or giving medical advice. I am not involved in providing medical care or managing medical aspects of the children.
Because my coaching is done by phone or video calls, and I have flexible hours, (including evenings and weekends), I’m able to accommodate the scheduling needs of most parents.
I know that I can be a valuable resource you can count on to assist you in meeting the needs of children and families. I look forward to working with any families that you refer.
If you would like to learn more about how I can help the families in your practice and share more about your practice with me, please schedule a "Get to Know You" Call below.
Schedule a "Get to Know You" CallKeep Reading to Learn About Mindset and Parent Coaching

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Some people have never heard of a mindset coach or a parent coach and aren't aware of the many benefits of working with me.
If a child has a challenge such as a physical, mental, emotional, behavioral, or learning difference, or the family is facing a challenge such as divorce, the child is often referred for services, but no one realizes that parents need help as well.Â
If parents do recognize the need for help, they are often referred to their own therapists or a behavioral specialists, neither is what they really need.
What they need is me!
What is Mindset and Parent Coaching?
 Many successful professionals such as physicians, business owners, athletes, and performers value the benefits gained from working with a coach to help them recognize what they are doing well and what their strengths are, as well as what changes they can make to become more effective in their work. Parents can benefit from this same process.
Mindset is the lens through which you view the world and it is determined by several factors including your childhood and adult history, life experiences, and genetics. How you view the world can affect how you interpret and experience your life and by changing your mindset you can learn to view the world in a different way.Â
Mindset coaching helps you to notice your thoughts, understand why you think the way you do, and shift your way of thinking.
My coaching process uses a strength-based and positive focused approach that results in positive growth and change over time.
As a parent coach, I will help parents recognize the strengths of each family member, identify the resources available to their family, and explore the aspects of their family life that are going well.
With this information, and their vision of how they want their future family life to be, we then incorporate over 50 topics included in a customized coaching program based on my proven 6 Step Path from Parenting Pain to Possibility to help them change their life!
Because each child and parent in the family is an individual, the coaching process takes this into account and recognizes that parents may want to try different approaches to see what works best for each member. Because parenting is not “one size fits all”, the coaching process allows for this time and personalized approach.
Unlike therapy and counseling which tend to look at past wounds and focus on emotional healing, parent coaching deals with present day challenges, is strength-based, and focuses on the future.Â
Yet, the past is important. When we do look at a parent's past, is it to explore how their mindset was established and how their parenting has been affected by their own experiences as a child and the impact of society and cultural conditioning. Their parenting experience offers the opportunity to learn about themself and nurture their own "inner child" Â so they can become the parent their child needs you to be, key concepts of Conscious Parenting.Â

 Coaching isn't only for parents dealing with problemsÂ
Often parents come to me when they are struggling and feeling overwhelmed or fearful. They are facing a family challenge and find themselves awake at night terrified, asking themselves, "Will my children be ok?" and "How am I going to do this?" Sometimes they are struggling with the realization that "I don't know how to parent this child".Â
Other parents don't wait until they get to that point.
Many parents work with me when they discover that their child is experiencing Attention Deficit Disorder (ADD)/Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD), Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD), Sensory Processing Disorder (SPD), a Learning Disability or Learning Challenge, Anxiety, Depression, Obsessive Compulsive Disorder, or Disruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD) and they realize that they want the support of working with a parent coach to work on ways to best address the needs of every family member.
Some parents work with me to help when their child has a physical, mental, emotional, behavioral, or learning difference and they realize that their parenting experience will be different than what they had expected, and for some, different from anything they could have ever imagined!
Sometimes parents want to work with me to prepare for a family transition such as divorce or remarriage, welcoming a new child into the family, preparing for a parent entering or leaving the work force, or facing the illness of a family member.Â
Some parents work with me to be proactive about helping their family get ready for a future stage of development or level of independence or responsibility, such as children entering the teen years or leaving for college.
Many parents work with me after divorce to help them face the challenges of single parenting or co-parenting, as well as help them redefine themselves, their family, and their future.
Many parents realize that they want a different parenting experience than the one they are having.
Sometimes it's because they are yelling a lot and want to stop, they feel stressed by their parenting encounters and want to feel more relaxed and confident, or they feel like they are pushing their children away and want a closer relationship with them.
When working with me, parents discover that many aspects of their lives are improved, not just those related to parenting. They find that coaching is such a positive experience of personal growth, that they work with me to explore different aspects of themselves and their family life and work on developing strengths, skills, and parenting concepts in general to develop increased competence and confidence.

 What Changes Can Parents Expect?
Every family is different and will want to address their own challenges. I work with parents to address routine, everyday issues, as well as more complicated or specialized challenges. As they make changes in their life, they will notice that even small changes will have large effects. Even if they start out to address a specific issue, their whole life improves. Â
After coaching they will have:
A more joyful parenting experience and a closer connection with their children
A sense of gratitude and appreciation of the ordinary, the average, and the beauty of everything around them
The ability to stay calm and stop yelling
A better understanding of their children, their developmental levels, and the meaning behind their behavior
A recognition of the strengths of each family member, the resources available to them, what is working for them, and how to utilize these factors in their family life
An understanding of the importance of allowing their children to be the unique individuals they are and the parent's role in nurturing their growth and respecting them for who they are
A knowledge of the principles of “Conscious Parenting” and a recognition of how parents have been conditioned by their own childhood experiences and society, and how that affects their everyday life and parenting.
The skills and knowledge to develop a healthy relationship with media and screen technology
A new appreciation for the need to take care of themself
The relief of knowing -THEY ARE NOT ALONE!!
Topics Covered During Coaching
Mindset
Positive Psychology
Conscious Parenting
Neuroscience and the Nervous System
Neuroplasticity
Co-regulation
Collaborative and Proactive SolutionsÂ
Love Languages
Child and Adult Development
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Understanding Behavior as Communication
Teaching and Guiding without Punishment and Rewards
Setting Healthy Boundaries
Self-Care
Resilience
Leadership
Appreciative Inquiry
And more!
What Happens When Parents Don't Get the Help They Need
They and their child will continue to engage in the same patterns and they'll never deal with the challenges of their child’s behavior, understand how it triggers them, and develop an appropriate and healthy response.
Their home life will continue to be stressful and volatile. Their child will continue with meltdowns or behavioral challenges and parents won’t develop the skills to help their child calm down and avoid meltdowns in the future.
They will suffer lost productivity at work due to their constant stress level, late mornings, and disruptions throughout the day.
If parents can’t help their children through the challenge of having a sibling with special needs, their sibling relationships may be forever strained, as well as their relationship with the parents.
Interactions with extended family will continue to be strained and parent can’t enjoy family events and holidays due to their being on edge regarding their child’s behavior and their family’s judgement.
Parents will isolate themselves from their friends in fear that they will expose the truth of their parenting challenges and they and their child will be misunderstood and judged.
Parents will experience exhaustion and stress related illnesses as they continue to neglect their own self-care, possibly requiring doctor appointments, medications, emergency room visits, and hospitalizations.
 If parents can’t find a way to calmly assist their child in facing their challenges, their family life will suffer even more.
Their child feels worse about themself as all attention is on their challenges rather than their strengths.
Their frustration level and sadness increase as they feel less and less equipped to handle the reality of their life.
They spend their parenting time in conflict rather than connection.
Their children live in chaos rather than calm, and their nervous systems get reset to a "norm" of stress and activation.
Their child feels alone in their struggles when they feel that their parents don't understand them and can't help them.
I know how much I suffered without support through my parenting challenges and many times I hear parents say, “I wish I had met you years ago”. This is your opportunity to save them years of struggle, pain, and suffering.
 For many parents, the value of that is priceless, and they don't want another day to go by without getting help!
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